Wow! So true…❤
“She doesn’t like when I touch her neck or her breasts anymore. Kissing is off limits, too. She has lots of rules.”
It’s not uncommon for husbands in heterosexual relationships to tell me what their wives don’t like in bed. Willing to follow her directions, trying to sexually satisfy the women they love, they are frustrated. These men know much more about what turns their wives off than what excites them. Their wives are discouraged and exasperated too, opting for masturbation as a more efficient, less annoying alternative than trying to explain the unexplainable. What would feel good between the sheets?
In truth, she doesn’t know what to ask for, because nothing seems to feel the way it should.
Communication in the bedroom often fails precisely for this reason. Just knowing what you don’t want doesn’t make sex great- it just makes sex tolerable. For many of the couples in…
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