These are the words that get me through lately.
I look for them over coffee and a cigarette, before the sun breaks.
A smart ass remark comes to my head every time I see them.
It says “Yeah right, Jeanne Marie isn’t fast enough to tag me!”
But that one remark in my mind is immediately greeted by a tailspin of thoughts.
“Yes, she is,” I laugh, trying to pull my mind out of this tailspin, because I know it’s going to keep charging towards the ground until it reaches that cold December day in 1978 when we first met face to face and then slowly gain altitude through a mist of memories until it’s over and it meets me here, where I started.
“She is fast enough, she moves differently than you! She is calculating and precise, while I move zigzag and fast, all over the place, wasting energy, while she plans her next move like a chess player.”
I giggle it, over and over in reality, hoping that laughing about it will take me back to the present day and I won’t have to make this 1,000 mile per hour journey through my past until I finally reach myself when I was young.
But to no prevail.
It’s not that I mind. I have so many great memories of my mom, and I can’t wait to see the two of us young, in that sun that seems more orange than it is today, laughing.
But I also know I cannot control the memories.
I couldn’t stop from hurting her feelings, the way that I can watch the things that come out of my mouth today.
I am much smarter now, but the things I said in the past were at times dumb.
Things I said when I thought I knew everything, with no intention of hurting her.
I just wanted her to see how smart I was…even if that meant I had to prove her wrong.
(I know now that I rarely proved her wrong, but she would listen to my rationalizations and kindly shrug her shoulders yes and say “hmm”.)
Jeanne Marie tagged a photo of you.
Has she always been doing this? Before The Facebook was here to tell me she was doing it?
My mind firmly tells me yes. Jeanne Marie has never been far from my thoughts,
but it wasn’t till now that I realized that I haven’t been far from hers.
Jeanne Marie tagged a photo of you.
I can’t wait to see what photo caught her attention this time.
Is it something that made her proud of me?
Is it something that gave her the warm feeling of being a good mom and a sense of family?
Is it just a silly snapshot that was taken, that when done, turned into a captured moment that we treasure?
Did I ask her not to take this photo, only to thank her later for taking it?
Jeanne Marie tagged a photo of you. Today 6:00 am.
How beautiful! I wonder if my sons think the same of me?? I doubt it very much. Such a treasure for you, a blessing most moms never receive
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Yes, such a blessing. I’m sure he does! You are precious.❤❤❤
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They have a different way of looking at it.
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Yes, sometimes they do. It always surprises me when I get these little gifts. ❤
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Thank you so much. 😊❤
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Always happy sharing your poems/posts!!
xoxo
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You are so sweet…
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You are too kind, My Dear! Your words whisper to me!!
xoxo
Chuck
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Awwwwwwwwww. Hugs, JM
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Very poetic and thoughtful piece, makes me think of my childhood. 🙂
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I love this piece, my son wrote it for me.
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Very moving, and skilfully written. Beautiful.
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Thank you so much. My son wrote it for me and I just love it.
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fantastic )
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Thank you! One of my favorites because my son wrote it and aside from that, it is just so moving and well written.
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I LOVE the way you use echoes from the past to bring depth to the emotional present. Reads like poetry!
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